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What If Work Was Meant to Be Enjoyed?
Work does not need to be separate from enjoyment to be professional. Building friendships and creating moments of connection at work improves collaboration, communication, and retention. Drawing from Bonnie Hammer’s pers...
Toby Adamson
Apr 290 min read
What If Winning Isn't The Point?
Winning is not everything. In fact, chasing it at all costs can lead to stress, burnout, and self doubt. Inspired by Bonnie Hammer’s concept of “winner takes all,” this post challenges the idea that success is about beat...
Toby Adamson
Apr 220 min read
Am I Letting Fear Decide My Next Move
Change is hard, even when it is chosen. In this post, I shares personal stories of major life transitions and explore why fear shows up during change. From dealing with self doubt and imposter syndrome to navigating stre...
Toby Adamson
Mar 240 min read
Boost Career with Energy Leadership
Spark Your Career Growth with Energy Leadership
Toby Adamson
Mar 180 min read
Stop Waiting and Start Acting
In lie number nine of 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work, Bonnie Hammer challenges the idea that good things come to those who wait. I agree that waiting has limits. Real career growth often requires chutzpah, the courage to...
Toby Adamson
Feb 210 min read
Imposter Syndrome Cure: Faking It or Facing It
Imposter syndrome shows up quietly then runs loud. In this post, I explore Lie Number Six from Bonnie Hammer’s book 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work. The lie claims that "fake it til you make" is the answer to self doubt. ...
Toby Adamson
Jan 130 min read
What Does Having It All Really Mean For Women Today?
Women have been told for decades that “you can have it all.” This idea sounds empowering until real life steps in with kids, careers, relationships, bills, sleep, and the occasional science project due at 8 AM. In this p...
Toby Adamson
Dec 8, 20250 min read
Are You Holding on to the Wrong Dream?
This post explores the first “lie” from Bonnie Hammer’s book 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work — the idea that you should “follow your dreams.” The truth? The dreams you start with often belong to someone else. As you gain ...
Toby Adamson
Oct 19, 20250 min read
Am I Letting My Doubts Run My Life?
We all have doubts. They sneak in at night, whisper during meetings, and flare up before big opportunities. These doubts aren’t you. They’re your gremlins—protective little voices that try to shield you from failure, rej...
Toby Adamson
Sep 25, 20250 min read
What Is Really Driving Your Workplace Stress?
Your job may feel like it is creating stress, and some days you get triggered beyond what you can handle. But you can do something about it without quitting your job or losing your mind.
Toby Adamson
Aug 29, 20250 min read
Why Do I Let Stress Hijack My Sleep and How Can I Stop?
Stress that keeps you up at night isn’t just frustrating, it’s a signal. Whether you're a hyper-achiever, people-pleaser, or avoider, stress builds when your inner critic runs unchecked. In this post, I share a personal ...
Toby Adamson
Aug 8, 20250 min read
How Can I Improve Work Life Balance Without Quitting
Ever catch yourself muttering, “I’m too busy to do that,” when someone suggests yoga, journaling, or finally using that PTO you’ve hoarded like a troll guarding a bridge? Yeah, same. But what if that busyness isn’t your ...
Toby Adamson
Jul 25, 20250 min read
How Can I Delegate Better Without Losing My Mind (or Control)?
Delegation is a game-changer—but let’s be honest, it’s also really hard. This blog unpacks why delegating is tough (hello, control issues and perfectionism!), how to shift your mindset, and how to improve the outcome aft...
Toby Adamson
Jul 18, 20250 min read
Gain Confidence To Start A Business Or A New Task
I didn’t think I had imposter syndrome—until SEO exposed my fears. This post shares how I finally confronted what I’d been avoiding, the surprising psychology behind self-doubt, and why progress matters more than perfect...
Toby Adamson
Apr 30, 20250 min read
Feeling The Love With The Help of Vulnerability
I recently experienced something truly magical: my destination wedding. The love I felt, surrounded by family and friends, was overwhelming in the best way possible. It was more than I could have ever hoped for. This exp...
Toby Adamson
Jan 13, 20250 min read
How To Expand Your View For Increased Life or Career Satisfaction
I came across this view while taking a walk the other day and it struck me. The sun is streaming through this hole in the cloud, casting a beautiful beam of light on the ocean. It's a captivating sight, but it's importan...
Toby Adamson
Dec 10, 20240 min read
The Wisdom of the Web: Lessons from Our Eight-Legged Friends
In the intricate dance of nature, spiders have long been the unsung maestros, orchestrating a delicate balance between hunting, resting, and nurturing their young. Their webs—those shimmering traps glistening in the morn...
Toby Adamson
Nov 21, 20240 min read
Unhappy With Your Job? Are You The Problem or Is It Your Job?
A Closer Look at Job Dissatisfaction
Toby Adamson
Nov 3, 20240 min read
The Secret Life of a Hyper-Achiever During Ironman Championships
In the world of endurance sports, few events hold the allure and challenge of the Ironman Championship. It's a grueling test of human limits, combining a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bike ride, and a 26.2-mile marathon run....
Toby Adamson
Oct 23, 20240 min read
The Avocado Incident
So I'm sure you're sick of hearing about my “avocado incident”, but I wanted to share how, throughout the day of the incident, my energy level bounced up and down, but highlighted the resilience I've shown in my life.
Toby Adamson
Aug 28, 20240 min read
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