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Why the Best Career Moves Aren’t Always Promotions
Many professionals believe career growth must always move upward through promotions and bigger titles. In reality, some of the most valuable career moves are horizontal. Inspired by Bonnie Hammer’s idea that success does...
Toby Adamson
Mar 90 min read
Am I Expecting to Be Rewarded Before I’ve Earned It?
This post explores the second lie from Bonnie Hammer’s 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work: that “you are owed professional worth just for showing up.” You’re not. You’re born with personal worth — that’s unconditional — but ...
Toby Adamson
Oct 22, 20250 min read
Are You Holding on to the Wrong Dream?
This post explores the first “lie” from Bonnie Hammer’s book 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work — the idea that you should “follow your dreams.” The truth? The dreams you start with often belong to someone else. As you gain ...
Toby Adamson
Oct 19, 20250 min read
Should I Start a Business After Losing My Job?
Losing your job can feel like a punch to the gut—but what if it’s actually a blessing in disguise? If you're asking, "Should I start a business?" or wondering, "I'm out of a job—should I start my own business?"—this is y...
Toby Adamson
Jul 9, 20250 min read
Small Steps: How Ironmen and Everyday Heroes Achieve Their Goals
I live in Hawaii right now and the Men’s Ironman Championships are around the corner. Ironmen are walking, running, biking, and swimming everywhere I go, which makes for great sightseeing if you like seeing hot male bodi...
Toby Adamson
Oct 18, 20240 min read
I’m Too Busy To Do That
It’s a common refrain. You feel as if you are too busy keeping up with your world to do the things you really want to do. Maybe that is:
Toby Adamson
May 26, 20240 min read
Always the Bridesmaid in Job Interviews?
Given the tight job market, I'm seeing a plethora of people who are questioning their life choices. Since getting interviews and / or landing that job has gotten tougher, it is only natural that these are the thoughts th...
Toby Adamson
Apr 10, 20240 min read
What Do I Want To Be When I Grow Up
Not just a phrase for young kids anymore. I have heard this phrase from the very young to the almost retired.
Toby Adamson
Mar 5, 20240 min read
Want a Job Change, But Too Busy To Look?
Are you unhappy in your job, but too drained to find the time to look for something new? Dealing with burnout while trying to consider a job change is all too common. When you're already overworked and a bit depressed, j...
Toby Adamson
Jan 22, 20240 min read
Do You Avoid Networking?
Today's blog post is short and sweet and mostly encapsulated in the infograph below about the roadblocks and benefits of networking. A program I am involved in called the Honor Foundation promotes networking to help the ...
Toby Adamson
Jan 11, 20240 min read
Toby Adamson
Nov 21, 20230 min read
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