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How Do I Develop a Leadership Mindset Before I'm a Manager?
A leadership mindset isn't granted by an org chart. It's built in the gap between "no one told me to" and "I did it anyway."
Toby Adamson
7 days ago3 min read


You Don't Need the Title to Start Leading
Nobody made me a leader. I just started acting like one.
Toby Adamson
Sep 144 min read


What’s the Difference Between a Manager Mindset and a Leadership
I may have watched too many doctor shows on TV.
Toby Adamson
Sep 87 min read
Career Advancement: 8 Actionable Steps to Reach Your Goals
You're putting in the work, hitting your targets, and still watching other people get promoted ahead of you. It's frustrating—and more common than you'd think.
Toby Adamson
May 250 min read
What If Work Was Meant to Be Enjoyed?
Work does not need to be separate from enjoyment to be professional. Building friendships and creating moments of connection at work improves collaboration, communication, and retention. Drawing from Bonnie Hammer’s pers...
Toby Adamson
Apr 290 min read
What If Winning Isn't The Point?
Winning is not everything. In fact, chasing it at all costs can lead to stress, burnout, and self doubt. Inspired by Bonnie Hammer’s concept of “winner takes all,” this post challenges the idea that success is about beat...
Toby Adamson
Apr 220 min read
Are You Sweating the Right Small Stuff in Your Career
Ever spend 20 minutes rewriting a Slack message… and then ignore the bigger conversation you’ve been avoiding for weeks?
Toby Adamson
Apr 140 min read
Herding Cats: Influencing Without Authority
I’ve been there.
Toby Adamson
Apr 10 min read
Am I Letting Fear Decide My Next Move
Change is hard, even when it is chosen. In this post, I shares personal stories of major life transitions and explore why fear shows up during change. From dealing with self doubt and imposter syndrome to navigating stre...
Toby Adamson
Mar 240 min read
Is Your Gut Costing You the Career Growth You Want
Trusting your gut can feel empowering, but it is often shaped by limiting beliefs, assumptions, insecurities, interpretations, and past experiences. While intuition can guide career decisions, relying on it alone can lea...
Toby Adamson
Mar 180 min read
What Does Having It All Really Mean For Women Today?
Women have been told for decades that “you can have it all.” This idea sounds empowering until real life steps in with kids, careers, relationships, bills, sleep, and the occasional science project due at 8 AM. In this p...
Toby Adamson
Dec 8, 20250 min read
Do I Have the Right Kind of Mentor?
Mentorship is often romanticized as a guiding light for career growth, but not all mentors help you grow in the way you need. In this post — inspired by the third lie in Bonnie Hammer’s 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work — I...
Toby Adamson
Nov 3, 20250 min read
Am I Expecting to Be Rewarded Before I’ve Earned It?
This post explores the second lie from Bonnie Hammer’s 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work: that “you are owed professional worth just for showing up.” You’re not. You’re born with personal worth — that’s unconditional — but ...
Toby Adamson
Oct 22, 20250 min read
Can You Lead Without Being the Loudest Voice in the Room?
Leadership presence doesn’t come from volume, it comes from vibration. Yet many of us have been tricked into thinking that louder means more confident, more in control, more leader-y. I am here to tell you that it's not....
Toby Adamson
Oct 7, 20250 min read
Am I Letting My Doubts Run My Life?
We all have doubts. They sneak in at night, whisper during meetings, and flare up before big opportunities. These doubts aren’t you. They’re your gremlins—protective little voices that try to shield you from failure, rej...
Toby Adamson
Sep 25, 20250 min read
How to Receive Feedback Without Falling Apart
Feedback is a fact of life and work. Sometimes it helps us grow, sometimes it stings, and sometimes it keeps us awake replaying the conversation over and over. It can trigger self-doubt, fuel fears of not being good enou...
Toby Adamson
Sep 6, 20250 min read
What Is Really Driving Your Workplace Stress?
Your job may feel like it is creating stress, and some days you get triggered beyond what you can handle. But you can do something about it without quitting your job or losing your mind.
Toby Adamson
Aug 29, 20250 min read
Why Do I Let Stress Hijack My Sleep and How Can I Stop?
Stress that keeps you up at night isn’t just frustrating, it’s a signal. Whether you're a hyper-achiever, people-pleaser, or avoider, stress builds when your inner critic runs unchecked. In this post, I share a personal ...
Toby Adamson
Aug 8, 20250 min read
How Can I Improve Work Life Balance Without Quitting
Ever catch yourself muttering, “I’m too busy to do that,” when someone suggests yoga, journaling, or finally using that PTO you’ve hoarded like a troll guarding a bridge? Yeah, same. But what if that busyness isn’t your ...
Toby Adamson
Jul 25, 20250 min read
How Can I Delegate Better Without Losing My Mind (or Control)?
Delegation is a game-changer—but let’s be honest, it’s also really hard. This blog unpacks why delegating is tough (hello, control issues and perfectionism!), how to shift your mindset, and how to improve the outcome aft...
Toby Adamson
Jul 18, 20250 min read
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