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What’s the Difference Between a Manager Mindset and a Leadership
I may have watched too many doctor shows on TV.
Toby Adamson
Sep 87 min read
When Will I Feel Confident Enough to Try?
TLDR: Confidence doesn’t come from already knowing you’ll succeed. It comes from trusting yourself to learn, adapt, and figure things out along the way. Throughout my life, I’ve discovered that the belief that I can lear...
Toby Adamson
Jul 280 min read
Why Is It So Hard to Trust a Plan That's Working?
Why is it so difficult to trust a process that's working? For many hyperachievers, especially those with a strong Controller saboteur, uncertainty feels like failure. In this post, I share a lesson from my coach training...
Toby Adamson
Jul 80 min read
What Does It Really Take to Lead Well?
I discovered ten core disciplines that shape how leaders think, act, and influence others. From awareness and authenticity to confidence, presence, and energetic engagement, these disciplines develop the inner game of le...
Toby Adamson
May 300 min read
What If Work Was Meant to Be Enjoyed?
Work does not need to be separate from enjoyment to be professional. Building friendships and creating moments of connection at work improves collaboration, communication, and retention. Drawing from Bonnie Hammer’s pers...
Toby Adamson
Apr 290 min read
Herding Cats: Influencing Without Authority
I’ve been there.
Toby Adamson
Apr 10 min read
Boost Career with Energy Leadership
Spark Your Career Growth with Energy Leadership
Toby Adamson
Mar 180 min read
Am I Holding Myself Back and Missing Opportunities for Growth?
Lie number eight from 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work claims talk is cheap. In reality, silence is expensive. This post explores why using your words is essential for career growth, especially for women balancing motherho...
Toby Adamson
Feb 100 min read
Is It Really a Man’s World?
What If Your Difference Is the Advantage?
Toby Adamson
Jan 210 min read
Am I Showing Up as My Best Self?
This is the fourth lie in Bonnie Hammer’s 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work — and I’m sharing my take on each one.
We all want to be judged on our character, our intelligence, and our results. But the truth is, people see u...
Toby Adamson
Nov 11, 20250 min read
Do I Have the Right Kind of Mentor?
Mentorship is often romanticized as a guiding light for career growth, but not all mentors help you grow in the way you need. In this post — inspired by the third lie in Bonnie Hammer’s 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work — I...
Toby Adamson
Nov 3, 20250 min read
How Can I Delegate Better Without Losing My Mind (or Control)?
Delegation is a game-changer—but let’s be honest, it’s also really hard. This blog unpacks why delegating is tough (hello, control issues and perfectionism!), how to shift your mindset, and how to improve the outcome aft...
Toby Adamson
Jul 18, 20250 min read
A Limited View and Unconscious Bias Can Lead You Astray
Quick judgments and a limited view—fueled by bias—lead us astray. Using a Hawaii driving story, I show how a limited view causes mistakes and missed opportunities. The cure? Curiosity: ask “What else could be true?”, lis...
Toby Adamson
May 24, 20250 min read
When To Pivot: Lessons Learned On A Tumultuous Boat Ride
On my catamaran trip on the Napali Coast, I learned one important thing from the captain: know when to retreat and regroup. We headed against 8-15 foot waves with 20-knot winds. The customers were getting seasick, everyo...
Toby Adamson
Jan 21, 20250 min read
Unveiling The Hidden Secret To Delegation
Do you have too much to do and not enough time? Could you delegate some of this work and have more time to focus on what is really important?
Toby Adamson
Oct 3, 20240 min read
Authentic Leadership Is All The Rage: Learn Why It Is All Wrong
It's all the rage! Authentic Leadership. Everyone talks about it. Everyone has an opinion about what it is and they're not shy about telling you how you need to change to become an authentic leader. So if everybody is ta...
Toby Adamson
Sep 25, 20240 min read
Hope Is Not a Strategy
A lesson to learn from CrowdStrike, the proud sponsor of system outages throughout the world,...
Toby Adamson
Jul 22, 20240 min read
Mid-Year Review and Reset
It is now almost halfway into July which means 2024 is half over. What were your goals this year? How did you do? What adjustments do you need to make?
Toby Adamson
Jul 10, 20240 min read
Thank You For The Feedback, Chef
Your manager or someone above you says “Nice job. Next time, <fill in the blank with feedback>”
Toby Adamson
Jul 5, 20240 min read
It's Who We Become That Gives Meaning To Our Lives
Vacations are supposed to be for fun, but on my recent one, I also am going to blow you away with how much I learned that will help me evolve and grow just by paying attention. You might just learn a thing or two as well...
Toby Adamson
Jun 24, 20240 min read
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