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How Can I Delegate Better Without Losing My Mind (or Control)?
Delegation is a game-changer—but let’s be honest, it’s also really hard. This blog unpacks why delegating is tough (hello, control issues and perfectionism!), how to shift your mindset, and how to improve the outcome aft...
Toby Adamson
Jul 18, 20250 min read
A Limited View and Unconscious Bias Can Lead You Astray
Quick judgments and a limited view—fueled by bias—lead us astray. Using a Hawaii driving story, I show how a limited view causes mistakes and missed opportunities. The cure? Curiosity: ask “What else could be true?”, lis...
Toby Adamson
May 24, 20250 min read
When To Pivot: Lessons Learned On A Tumultuous Boat Ride
On my catamaran trip on the Napali Coast, I learned one important thing from the captain: know when to retreat and regroup. We headed against 8-15 foot waves with 20-knot winds. The customers were getting seasick, everyo...
Toby Adamson
Jan 21, 20250 min read
The Power of Patience and Seizing the Moment
Lessons from Flowing Lava
Toby Adamson
Jan 1, 20250 min read
The Wisdom of the Web: Lessons from Our Eight-Legged Friends
In the intricate dance of nature, spiders have long been the unsung maestros, orchestrating a delicate balance between hunting, resting, and nurturing their young. Their webs—those shimmering traps glistening in the morn...
Toby Adamson
Nov 21, 20240 min read
Unhappy With Your Job? Are You The Problem or Is It Your Job?
A Closer Look at Job Dissatisfaction
Toby Adamson
Nov 3, 20240 min read
Small Steps: How Ironmen and Everyday Heroes Achieve Their Goals
I live in Hawaii right now and the Men’s Ironman Championships are around the corner. Ironmen are walking, running, biking, and swimming everywhere I go, which makes for great sightseeing if you like seeing hot male bodi...
Toby Adamson
Oct 18, 20240 min read
Unveiling The Hidden Secret To Delegation
Do you have too much to do and not enough time? Could you delegate some of this work and have more time to focus on what is really important?
Toby Adamson
Oct 3, 20240 min read
Authentic Leadership Is All The Rage: Learn Why It Is All Wrong
It's all the rage! Authentic Leadership. Everyone talks about it. Everyone has an opinion about what it is and they're not shy about telling you how you need to change to become an authentic leader. So if everybody is ta...
Toby Adamson
Sep 25, 20240 min read
What Makes An Emerging Leader?
I love emerging leaders. I love talking to them, coaching them, leading them, and fostering their career. Basically, I love everything about them. Why, you ask?
Toby Adamson
Aug 15, 20240 min read
Hope Is Not a Strategy
A lesson to learn from CrowdStrike, the proud sponsor of system outages throughout the world,...
Toby Adamson
Jul 22, 20240 min read
Mid-Year Review and Reset
It is now almost halfway into July which means 2024 is half over. What were your goals this year? How did you do? What adjustments do you need to make?
Toby Adamson
Jul 10, 20240 min read
Thank You For The Feedback, Chef
Your manager or someone above you says “Nice job. Next time, <fill in the blank with feedback>”
Toby Adamson
Jul 5, 20240 min read
It's Who We Become That Gives Meaning To Our Lives
Vacations are supposed to be for fun, but on my recent one, I also am going to blow you away with how much I learned that will help me evolve and grow just by paying attention. You might just learn a thing or two as well...
Toby Adamson
Jun 24, 20240 min read
I Need More Executive Presence
What the heck is executive presence anyway? This enigmatic quality, while frequently lauded, can feel shrouded in ambiguity. Do you really need it? If so, how do you know what it is and how can you get it?
Toby Adamson
Jun 3, 20240 min read
I’m Too Busy To Do That
It’s a common refrain. You feel as if you are too busy keeping up with your world to do the things you really want to do. Maybe that is:
Toby Adamson
May 26, 20240 min read
Too Many Plates Spinning
I have too many plates spinning. You know what I am talking about right? That guy who would be on talk or variety shows spinning plates on sticks and you would hold your breath waiting for one to drop. It rarely did.
Toby Adamson
May 20, 20240 min read
It Is Not A Mistake: It’s An Opportunity!
There are no mistakes. This is a foundation principle of iPec, the coaching program where I was certified, and most people bristle at this statement. I absolutely love it.
Toby Adamson
Apr 30, 20240 min read
Imposter Syndrome is a Plague - But Totally Curable
They say 70% of the population has imposter syndrome. I say that the other 30% is delusional.
Toby Adamson
Feb 29, 20240 min read
The Conflict Between Jim and Dwight Explained
It’s all in their personality style
Toby Adamson
Jan 30, 20240 min read
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